Unfortunately, it’s common to hear stories about couples who split up due to a lack of excitement in the sex department. Over time, regular heterosexual intercourse can get boring for both partners, eventually resulting in a breakup. Luckily, there are numerous ways to shed some new light on the scene, and one of them is pegging.
Aside from classic sex toys like vibrators and dildos, others help couples reverse traditional gender roles and enjoy female to male anal action. These toys are prostate massagers or anal dildos that women wear to penetrate their hubbies from behind. This can make a huge difference in how you see sex, so allow us to explain it in full detail.
Women Help Men Explore Their Prostate Area
Just like women, guys have that one particular spot that makes orgasms almost otherworldly. It’s what we know as a prostate (P-spot), a bulky gland between a man’s anal canal and urethra. Obviously, the location means that you can only reach it either anally or by penile sounding. Nevertheless, we’re here to discuss the first option.
We’re no strangers to anal stimulation. You can see it all the time in porn, but it’s usually men who plow women from behind. However, pegging consists of girls wearing harness fits that have an attached faux penis. This way, they get to slide into their hubbies’ backdoors, exploring what it’s like to be a man, while men get to experience the opposite.
Since we’ve mentioned the P-spot, the whole point of male anal penetration is prostate stimulation. You can do it by inserting a finger inside his ass, but that’s not quite the same. Pegging allows actual intercourse that resembles what you’d typically do. And if you follow through with this type of stimulation, he’ll come like a hose.
Still, anal penetration is rather painful if you’re new to it. This is why it’s essential to use lots of lube and start slowly. Before a woman sliders her silicone dildo inside, she should help her partner relax by massaging his perineum and anus with fingers. Once he feels relaxed and confident enough, anal sex can ensue inch by inch.
Pegging Is an Act of Women Domination
Similar to cock cages and male chastity devices, nothing says female supremacy more than pegging. But how come? Well, it’s simple. Traditionally, men are the ones that insert their penises into women, eventually impregnating them. It’s the essential dynamic of heterosexual intercourse. However, it all goes away when you reverse the roles and have a woman fuck her man’s brains out. Additionally, incorporating nipple suckers can heighten the experience by increasing sensitivity and adding another layer of stimulation.
Now, one might wonder why some men renounce their biological privilege. This question has many answers, and they differ from one guy to another. However, there’s a common thread between them — they love submission. That means they want to be someone’s possession, to feel protected, and to be used as something precious. Of course, some would argue it’s due to having abusive mothers, but we won’t go into that.
Women Simply Like to Experiment
Experimenting with your body is an essential part of sex. Thus, it’s no wonder why people would try out pegging, as it’s something new and different from what we’re accustomed to by now. But prostate-induced orgasms for men aren’t just about lunging and pounding. There are even more ways to spice things up than going for it all guns blazing.
The best example of experimenting is if the woman uses a strapless strap-on. This is a double-sided dildo that she holds in position thanks to her vaginal muscles. Using such a toy, both partners will feel the stimulation, as both ends of the sex toy will be penetrating someone. Of course, to use these toys, women need to work on their vaginal muscle strength first.
But to take things even further, some couples include cock cages as well. These adult toys prevent males from getting an erection as they lock their penises up. These gadgets are usually seen in BDSM relationships. So, since we’ve mentioned bondage and dominance, let’s jump into it and see what it has to do with pegging.
It Satisfies Couple’s Kink for BDSM
Even if you never thought about BDSM, chances are you have a hidden kink inside you. Regardless of your sex and gender. Both men and women enjoy various forms of bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism. And each of these can include a sexual activity such as pegging.
When it comes to bondage, a girl can tie up her man and then plow him from behind. For discipline, well, if he doesn’t act “nice,” he’ll get a dildo up his ass. Then again, it’s pretty clear how pegging works with dominance and submission. Right? And lastly, for S&M, anal sex is in itself pretty painful, so it satisfies both the sadist and the masochist partner.
Can Improve Both Men and Women’s Sex Satisfaction
Lastly, let’s talk a bit about how prostate stimulation differs from other sexual acts. We’ve already mentioned that P-spot orgasms are unique. The part why this is such is the fact that this gland produces and stores prostatic fluid, which carries sperm. By stimulating it, the chances are that this fluid will come out even before a man reaches the climax. In kink circles, people also call this act prostate milking for obvious reasons.
Prostate milking beats classic masturbation by miles. The way to make a prostate orgasm unforgettable is if the man strokes his penis while his female partner pegs him from behind. The combination of anal penetration, prostate stimulation, and jerking off is basically going to result in a volcanic eruption of cum. The scene will be all sticky and whitish, but hey, both partners will remember it for the rest of their lives.
Yet, where’s the satisfaction for girls in this? Well, aside from using a double-sided dildo that stimulates them, too, they’ll witness their hubby in his most vulnerable state. He’ll stand on all fours in front of her, begging her not to stop. Moreover, he’ll quiver and shake once he spills his load in the end. And if that’s no reward for women, well, we don’t know what is. You should try it out, obviously, and you’ll immediately get why pegging is so popular.